Why going to university worked for me, but doesn’t work for everyone

I graduated almost seven years ago, and there has not been one moment in the last seven years where I have not looked fondly upon the time I spent there. No regrets, whatsoever.  The three years flew by in a haze of making friends, finding myself, doing a great degree with generally speaking committed and knowledgable lecturers and doing all the extra stuff which made the time memorable.

There was never a question of whether I would attend university or not.  I don’t remember consciously making the decision or having the discussion, it was always assumed by both myself and my family that I would go.  Not because everyone in my family had been before (in fact, at the time it wasn’t hugely the norm), but because my parents and teachers were ambitious for me, as was I.  I was always academic, always the class geek and going to university just seemed the obvious extension of this.

I chose the University of Kent, based in Canterbury and playfully known as UKC amongst anyone who attended in 2001 and earlier, until the branding changed to the above. I spent three years doing an LLB in Law in a strange, but beautiful campus set against the majesty and grandeur of the Cathedral and the hustle bustle of students and tourists in Canterbury itself.  I remember very clearly visiting Kent whilst in Sixth Form and knowing straight away that this is where I wanted to study.  I had visited other places, and at the time Kent didn’t have the best reputation for Law, but I loved the way they taught the course and something about the setting really appealed to me.

Fast forward a year or so, and I found myself in a strange room (which my family hated, I think it was the green painted brickwork and the prison-esque) ready to get stuck in.  I was nervous, of course, but I was ready for what Kent had to throw at me.  I think at that stage, aged 18 I still wasn’t sure who I wanted to be, or what sort of person I was.  At school I was the geek, or the music/drama person, or the “get involved with everything” girl, but I saw university as the opportunity to really shape myself and my future, not just to learn.

And by and large it did.  It gave me the space and confidence to join and then lead societies, get involved with student politics and internal organising frameworks, play different sports, drink different drinks and I ended up running for sabbatical (in Welfare) with hustings, door knocking, sandwich boards and 3 glorious days of poster flying and no sleep. (I didn’t win in the end, by the experience was simply incredible).

I also made my best friends there.

I’m painting a very rosy picture of University here.  There were moments that were really hard.  At one point I was clocking up 30 hours a week in the local Asda whilst also studying and getting involved with volunteering stuff, and I had a second job at the Law School Helpdesk too.  Money was tight, the loan didn’t go that far and I promise it wasn’t because we spent it all on booze.  I managed to clock up two large overdrafts and a credit card by the end of my three years which was small fry in comparison to others.  I was also very fortunate to just miss out on top up fees, so my fees were around £1k per year as opposed to the almost £9k discussed now.

Back in 2001, the graduate job market was tough, but not insurmountable.  I was very lucky to secure a voluntary sector job in London the day before my final exam, and because my exams finished in May and I didn’t start my job until early July I had the chance to get a well paying admin job on a local fruit farm for six weeks which paid off almost both of my overdrafts. It wasn’t long before all my discretionary debt was paid (within about a year of graduating) and although I am still paying off my student loan, I am about two years away from finishing that.

So what is my point?  The first thing to say, is that the decision facing students today is awful.  I recognise how lucky I was and I was out on the original top up fees marches. I’m not sure I would have made the same choice today as I did seven years ago.  The second thing to say, is that I saw many, many people for whom university was just not the right fit for them. If you are retaking your foundation year for the third time, there is something not quite right.

And there is no shame in that.  This rhetoric that you have to go to university to make something of yourself is utter tosh.  My Mum, one of the most intelligent and talented people I know, didn’t go to university and worked hard to get to where she is now. My husband is literally flying in his career, and made a very conscious decision not to go to university and to get out and work, at the same time as I was packing up my things to go.  It is even more important to recognise this fact now the stakes are much higher – huge huge fees and debt, teaching which may diminish because the cuts to higher education may not be met by the increased fees, a lack of graduate jobs – the picture is a bit bleak.

I wish we had not sold this dream of university to everyone – because by selling the dream you are normalising something which just isn’t suitable for every young person, we are all different.  Easy for me to say as I went, but I don’t think university has to be the pinnacle that we all have to get to, t be worth something.  If university is right for you, then nothing should stop you going.  But if not, why is vocational training or an apprenticeship, or even a blimmin’ job seen as second rate?  Some of the UK’s most successful entrepreneurs did not attend university, and it doesn’t appear to have held them back.

I’ve made this post quite long, but I make no apology for that – it is something I feel really passionate about. I want young people to have the opportunity to carve out a life for themselves and to shine in their chosen field, no matter which way they decide to do it.  Peter Jones’ National Enterprise Academies are a fantastic start, but more needs to be done to think creatively about how people learn and earn – and then how we support that.

Did you go to university, and did it work for you?

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